Maturing is realizing how many things don’t require your comment.
Rachel Wolchin

Boys are adorable. Boys trail off their sentences in an appealing way. Boys bring a knapsack to work. Boys get haircuts from their roommate, who “totally knows how to cut hair.” Boys can pack up their whole life in a duffel bag and move to Brooklyn for a gig if they need to. Boys have “gigs.” Boys are broke. And when they do have money, they spend it on a trip to Colorado to see a music festival. Boys don’t know how to adjust their conversation when they’re talking to their friends or to your parents.

Until I was thirty, I only dated boys, as far as I can tell. I’ll tell you why. Men scared the shit out of me.

Men know what they want. Men make concrete plans. Men own alarm clocks. Men sleep on a mattress that isn’t on the floor. Men tip generously. Men buy new shampoo instead of adding water to a nearly empty bottle of shampoo. Men go to the dentist. Men make reservations. Men go in for a kiss without giving you some long preamble about how they’re thinking of kissing you… Men know what they want and they don’t let you in on their inner monologue, and that is scary.

Mindy Kaling on Boys vs. Men, Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me

If I Don’t Show Up With A Bag Of Tricks, It’s Pretty Much - Why Are You Here?, Lindsey Wixson by Matthew Stone for System SS14

Natalia Kills for Wetheurban

Giambattista Valli fall 2014 couture backstage photographed by Schohaja

Maison Martin Margiela, Used Magazine Online

Jil Sander 1994 by Peter Lindbergh 

Maurizio Di Iorio, Untitled, 2012

An enchanting Christian Lacroix haute couture layered silk wedding gown with ruffled tulle and a draping veil held in place by a jewel headpiece features in the editorial ‘The Glorious Traditions’ which was photographed by legend Irving Penn for Vogue US December 1995


my goal in life is to be as happy as the students on the covers of prep books

One day you lose something, and you say: ‘Oh my God. I was happy. And I didn’t even know it.’